Oct 2 2024

The Link Between Perfectionism, Behaviour and Anxiety When I do initial parenting coaching calls I quite frequently find myself nodding along when parent are listing the challenges that they are facing. I estimate that around 90% of the parents that I work with are parents of highly sensitive[…]

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Feb 26 2024

Understanding Highly Sensitive Children I have a phrase that I have been using with children for years to help try to reduce the shame they feel when they aren’t able to cope with their emotions in the way they see their peers being able to. The phrase is[…]

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Jan 23 2024

CHALLENGE STARTS HERE!!! I’m going to be posting 5 journaling prompts every Wednesday and Sunday for the next 4 weeks. How you use them is up to you. You might decide to do all 5 on the same day and then have some days off or spread them[…]

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Jan 15 2024

I confess that winter is my least favourite season. Yes it has Christmas, but other than that I have always struggled with the cold, poor weather and lack of sunlight. I know that it isn’t just me. Seasonal affective disorder affects many  and is thought to be related[…]

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Dec 20 2023

Why Do Some Children Feel More Anxious at Christmas? I don’t want to be a grinch and I know I’ve mentioned this before but Christmas isn’t easy for all kids. For kids who are neurodivergent or who have high sensitivity to sensory stimulation it can be really challenging,[…]

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Dec 7 2023

  I’ve been doing a lot of thinking recently about parental burnout. It is something that I am noticing more and more but I don’t feel like we are talking about enough. Why is Parental Burnout so High? As a generation of parents, we put huge pressure on[…]

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Sep 26 2023

I’ve always been rubbish at taking a compliment. If you tell me I look nice I will probably tell you that I’ve had my outfit for years and that I need a haircut. If you tell me I did something well I will probably tell you that other[…]

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Sep 12 2023

The Map is Not the Territory This is a simple but important phrase. It means that our representation (memory) of a situation will not be exactly as the reality of the situation. Our internal representation will be influenced by numerous factors which are individual to us and the[…]

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Sep 8 2023

What Do I Mean by Transitions? I’ve talked a lot about school transitions recently. But there is another type of transition which impacts family life on a daily basis that I don’t think we talk about enough. Think about your day with your children. When are you most[…]

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Sep 7 2023

It’s a big day in my house day. My first-born child is starting secondary school. Yesterday there were definitely some nerves but this morning she went off happily with her friends (limping away due to a badly-timed football injury). It would be easy to think “job done”. I’ve[…]

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